Coach's Perspective: Defining a Win, Maintaining Motivation
Whenever I start working with an athlete, one of the first things that I undertake with them is an assessment of where they are currently and where they are trying to get to. Often, athletes come to me with pretty specific, defined goals; they want to complete a specific race, they want to beat a specific time, they want to qualify for a World Championship. Other times, they may not have a clear idea of what those goals are in which case it becomes a discussion to determine what they should be.
On the way to achieving those goals there will very likely be successes and failures. Let’s face it, rarely is the path to accomplishment a straight line! Making sure that you stay on that path is the real challenge and it is both the hardest part of the journey as well as the most rewarding. Because inevitably there will be all kinds of obstacles and detours that will arise and if you allow them to derail you or set you off course then achieving those goals that you pre-determined may become impossible. Alternatively, negotiating those barriers makes the end result that much more of an accomplishment and that much more fulfilling.
The best way to stay on track no matter what might come up is to remain laser focused on the finish line, whatever that might be but placing measurable yardsticks along the way can make the entire venture so much more enjoyable as well as just make it all seem that much more achievable.
For example, if your goal is to qualify for Kona and you are starting at the point where you have not ever even done an Ironman, it is easy to envision measurable yardsticks along the path to the eventual goal:
Complete an IM
Place in the top 10 in an IM
Train consistently for one year
Improve swim, bike and run to be competitive with top AG’ers
Place on the podium for an IM (top 5)
Qualify for Kona
Each of those yard sticks contribute to the eventual overarching goal and each can be considered wins on the way to the finish line. Motivation for the final goal may be difficult to maintain if say in your first IM you finish 35th in your AG and there are only 2 slots. But it is likely a lot easier to stay motivated for that yardstick of placing in the top ten because that is more achievable and a stepping stone on the way to the final goal.
Too often in triathlon I meet athletes who think only of the final goal and then when they realize how much they have bitten off, that reality discourages them and they give up on pursuing it. I firmly believe that by establishing these kinds of markers along the way to the goal it is a great way to make the whole process less daunting and therefor easier to stick with.
How do you choose what those markers are and how often to set them along the path to the final goal? The answer to this will depend on many variables; the background of the athlete, what the final goal is and how much of a jump that is from where they are starting and finally how much the athlete needs success to be motivated.
There is no doubt that we can all learn from our failures and use them to motivate us toward future successes but let’s face it, it is much more fun to succeed in the first place. Finding victories within our perceived defeats is one way that we can ensure that we remain positive and do not become frustrated with the process and the amount of time that it takes to get to where we are trying to go.
This is why it is so important to spend some time up front carefully considering how we define a win. We often will think of a ‘win’ in overly rigid terms-landing on the top step of the podium for example. However it need not be that way. A win can be as mundane as completing the swim without having to do the breaststroke. Completing the race without having any negative thoughts. However you define it, those wins can be found even when the yardsticks you defined have not been met and doing that can keep you on pace for achieving your goal.
In the example above, I set one of the yardsticks as ‘Place in the top 10’ in an IM. Maybe that doesn’t come to pass and instead you finish 12th. It would be easy to look at that and become despondent and think ‘What’s the point? I can’t do this!’ Alternatively, you could easily turn that around and look for some wins. Maybe your swim and bike splits were in the top 10. Maybe it was transitions that made the difference between 12th and 10th. Maybe you finally nailed your nutrition allowing you to get this best ever finish.
Whatever it is, finding those wins can easily make the sting or disappointment of not meeting that yardstick much more bearable and even let you move on to the next yardstick knowing what you need to do to make up the difference.
Another common issue I run in to with athletes is waxing and waning motivation for continuous movement towards the final goal. This is completely understandable given how long the process can take. I think that understanding what actually drives us and is the underpinning of motivation can help in getting through these rough patches.
Motivation can be thought of as derived from five basic needs being fulfilled by whatever it is we are pursuing:
Autonomy
Curiosity
Passion
Purpose
Mastery
For example, maybe your goal is to finish and Ironman within the allotted time. What motivates you to do this?
Autonomy-I am going to accomplish this on my own
Curiosity-I want to know if I can do this
Passion-I love triathlon, I love being a triathlete
Purpose-your why for racing. Maybe you are raising money for a charity? Maybe you are doing it to lose weight, to get in shape, etc.
Mastery-I want to be a better swimmer, biker and runner
Whenever you find yourself lacking motivation, think on these categories and ask yourself, how do they relate to your specific goal or yardstick. I bet that by thinking on these categories, at least one of them will stoke the fires and bring back the motivation when maybe it was beginning to flag. The beauty is not all of the categories need to be engaged at any one time. Only one needs to be activated for you to be motivated but the more that are engaged, the more motivated you will become.
Like any race we do, any long training session, pursuing our goals is a huge undertaking and one that will come with peaks and valleys and require steadfast dedication. Yardsticks, defining wins and reminding ourselves of the roots of our motivation can help make the journey that much easier and ultimately successful.
Train hard, train healthy.
